First of all, let me be blunt. There are very few people I don’t like. I may not like some peoples’ mannerisms or actions, but I do believe each human being has redeeming qualities. However, there are exceptions to the rule. I may dislike a person because of the negative way they feel towards me … More Awkward moment on a lift….

There are those among us who feel they can have access to anything or take any possession they please from someone because no one ever told them it is wrong. Or because they have a sense of entitlement. In my family there are a few people who believe the world is their oyster simply for … More Extortion In The Family

Throughout the ages women have been known for congregating in packs and being part of the coffee clutch. Rarely do people talk about men’s ability to gossip and to create discussion groups of their own. Their sounding boards are usually their friends who can often times breathe death or life in their relationships. I never … More Fine Tuning Your Beau’s Friends

It is important to pay attention to the parting words of loved ones, sometimes they are trying to give us hints regarding what they are going through. There are times when I am reluctant about a situation I am entering, I would say, “Wish me luck!” or “Do you think everything will be okay?” Once … More Last Words…..

When I was 12 years old I wanted to become a Dietician. I dreamt of marrying someone from the Mediterranean. Please don’t ask me why the Mediterranean, it is just a notion I had…. I wanted to live in a separate house from my husband, in a tropical oasis. I felt if I was privy … More Reality Bites….

Every perplexing situation deserves a good detective deciphering the sensationalism from the reality. Therefore when everything began to spin out of control regarding my paramour’s crisis, I went into “Paratha Christie” mode. The modern day, Indian version of Agatha Christie. I meditated, and traveled several parallel universes to get to the crux of the shenanigans, … More “Paratha Christie”

There are a few of my cousins who I love and adore, and then, there are the ones who are less than sincere, whom I just decide it is best to wish them well and think about them from afar. There are some of my girl cousins who are magnets for drug czars. I am … More Guilty By Associations

Drug trafficking is at an all time high and no longer are commercial jet liners being used to transport illegal contraband and drugs. The druggers are taking owners of boats and jet planes under duress, harassing them to transport their wares. International waters have become the chosen conduit for most cartels to conduct their drug … More Owners of Private Jets, and Boats Beware…..

The only way to know what our souls want is to sometimes give in to our zany side, and have a dialogue with ourselves. Therefore, I threw caution to the wind and engaged in an interesting Question and Answer session with myself. Most individuals often comment, “It is okay to talk to yourself, but it … More My Self Interview

Every time I experience adversity in my life and I have reached out to my family for help, I am always greeted with these words? “What do you have to show for your years of toiling?” If my adoptive parents weren’t so eager to emancipate me as a teenager I could have owned and accomplished … More What Do I have To Show For My Years of Toiling?