In life folks try to justify their bad behavior patterns by making paltry excuses. One of the most common reasons I have heard why others have been able to overstep their bounds and take a prominent role in my parents’ life is due to the fact that they have a better relationship with my parents … More It All Boils Down To “Relationship”

The elitists would like everyone to believe they are diligently following fair business practices when hiring, by dotting all the “I’s” and crossing all the “T’s” but that is hogwash! They are no longer following corporate paradigms. Instead they are more likely to practice curry favoring, homeland security guidelines and profiling. You may ask yourself … More The Hiring Process Is Malarkey!

My whole life I basically thought something was seriously wrong with me because I never experienced the overwhelming love emotions the way most girls felt. They would rather endure horrific relationships just to avoid being alone or taking a singular path. Even when they were in dead end courtships, they would rather stick it out … More Get The Piece of Paper!

As families go, none of us get to choose who our relations are. When we are young we believe we are cooler than them, and refrain from being associated. In my situation, I was the geek and they tried their best to disassociate from me because I was just too weird, and I muddled their … More My Big Fat, Crazy, Slightly Irregular Family

American Naturopath Foreign Naturopath American Foreign Where is it written that if a woman is smart, intelligent or accomplished, she has to look mousy to fit the part? From the time I was old enough to go to kindergarten I was an A++ student. As I got older, it escalated to honors and regents level. … More Look Mousy…..

Hollywood is the mecca of stars and illusions, however, these past few years there seems to be a lot of upheavals going on in Tinsel Town. Recently there was a dropping of the axe on approximately 92 shows. I must admit some of the shows were superficial entertainment and only held appeal for one or … More Uproar In Hollywood

During my odyssey to blend into this world on occasion I felt I had found lasting friendships among people of color in America. I would soon find out, that many were just interested in finding out my business, weaknesses and strengths just so they can use the information they retrieved against me. All during the … More How Colored Folks Do Sometimes…..

Mother’s day is a time when most people reflect about their relationships with their mothers. In my world, I have mixed feelings about parental relationships on a whole. Simply because my entire life I have been made to feel like I can never repay the debt of being born. It didn’t matter that at certain … More A Debt That Can Never Be Repaid

For the first 15 minutes of my adult life, things were great. Primarily because I lived under the radar and no one really knew me. As I matured and my heritage became obvious, my life changed. People began to give me a hard way to go with EVERYTHING! Initially, I would whimper and whine, and … More The Angry and Pissed Off Girlfriend

Most individuals get married because they have searched high and low for the one that truly compliments their lives in wonderful and unexpected ways. When the decision is made to take on marriage, many do it with the expectation it will last forever. Nowadays, more marriages are ending up in divorce court after a few … More The Unimaginable