Society judges us by our actions and often times they feel the need to find the DNA connection between us and our respective families. In my life I would most definitely read as a Nancy Drew book called, “The Matter Of The Hidden DNA series.” Why you may ask? Because my inherent family traits are … More Punctilious Persons

Every person has his/her own idea regarding what he/she wants their marriage to look like. Some want traditional marriages, others not so much. These are the ones who create an illusion which they label for all intense purposes, and call it a “marriage”. Most of us on the outside looking in know it is anything … More Marrying Right

Dear Vikings if you hang in there and live long enough eventually all the dirty dealings and underhanded mischief which was done at your expense gets revealed. Over the years I never really trusted my intuition because to the scientific mind it was not conclusive and basically one’s intuition is just hunches. Yet, all my … More The Revelations Keep Coming!

There are days when I sit down and reflect on my life and find it almost impossible to believe the things I have been through even when I was observant and diligent. For many years my beau and I shared a bicoastal life. I never queried any of his decisions and basically went along with … More Romping With The Maid

Women who aspire to great heights career wise do not take their opportunities lightly because they know the Old Boy’s Club are just watching and waiting for the Shiksas in the Boardroom to mess up. Therefore smart minded career women make every effort to keep up with technology and the latest computer office programs so … More At The Top Of Our Game

In life, there are people who know you and study you more than you know or study yourself. During the course of some our lives, we forget little things about our person which make us healthy, happy and comfortable. It is not that we have lost touch with ourselves, it’s just that life and the … More The Deal With The House Kitty

In the South, no matter how proper a family is they are willing to let their crazy family members run-a-muck. In other words, they do not believe in hiding their crazies. In Caribbean and Central American families, any form of crazy is kept quiet because of the stigma associated. During my life, I have often … More Crazy Hangs Out In The South

In my younger years, I was a whipper snapper, a dare devil and I lived life to the fullest. As I matured and realized that there were haters who were truly out to get me I decided I had to curtail my life and activities. Not because I was intimidated by anyone, but because I … More BEYOND OBSESSION