In the minds of my critics, it is their opinion that I spent my life trying to bring sexy back. Let me explain. In a woman’s twenties and thirties, she should be dating as much as she can to determine what she truly wants in her life. Since I was coupled up from the time … More Obsessed with Men & Fashion

Isn’t it strange that significant others sometimes pick the most inconvenient times to have heart to heart talks or to find out the smallest detail about you as a person. For instance, there are moments when I may need my beau to complete a task for me and he will say, “Sure, I’ll do it but first … More The Questionnaire

Any foreigner who  decides to come to America knows it is a pain-staking process. Especially nowadays since terrorism has taken center stage, becoming an American resident or citizen is nothing less than a monumental undertaking. As I am maturing and navigating through life I am discovering  hidden truths concerning naturalization in America. My aunt who died almost … More The Deals We Make Sacrifice Our Souls

Most individuals look at the family as a safe place. Family is supposed to be an environment where you feel you can let your hair down and be your authentic self. However, in my family, it is the opposite. I did not realize my family members were so duplicitous and hypocritical until I had endured … More The Summer of 83

It seems my entire life my biological father spent most of his time preparing me to be the wife who will not rock the boat. I must admit in my earlier years I felt his urgings such as “Don’t go acting like Miss Marple when your husband is ambiguous concerning his whereabouts” and “If someone … More Me, As A Married Woman

There are some women in our society which take the cheating and philandering of their men lightly but I assure you it is a very serious matter. If not sorted quickly it can contribute to their untimely demise. I have often thought of myself as a savvy person. I believe I am the sort of … More A Deadly Dalliance

Once you step out on a limb and decide to put your truth out there every person with a gripe or whom you made acquaintance with believes they “know” you. For me, I can honestly say, no one “knows” me.  Let me explain. Over the years I have accumulated frenemies, pseudo-love relationships and associates who … More You. Don’t. Know. Me.

The average woman comes from a good home with morals, principles and integrity. Even if some aspects of her family life is dysfunctional when she goes to school she is taught what is wrong and right. Therefore by the time women enter adolescence they know it is wrong to keep company with another woman’s husband. … More Married Men Playing Single

Here is a story which depicts the horrifying effects of mental illness. A story told by “Myrtle” my spirit guide. (In a deep southern drawl) Hi my name is Myrtle and I was born in the deep south, 30 miles north of the Mississippi Gulf Coast to be exact. I first came to the big … More Welcome To Great Adventure: Riding The Crazy Roller Coaster